Keeping old boyfriends on Facebook is a bad idea.
After getting married, having such an availability to men who you used to have feelings for can lead to emotional infidelity. Lauer and Lauer as well as Van Epp, all experienced and published marriage and family therapists, have found that talking and spending time (even online) with someone is a great precursor to feeling in love. This can lead to emotional affairs. Emotional affairs, as described in a paper by Professor Gardner of BYU-I, are very discrete. Both parties don't even have to know what's happening. But that emotional attachment can still be there.
Hopefully you see how keeping friends with ex's on the good'ol F.B. is a bad idea foe the stability of a marriage.
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